Jasmine opens up about finding her signature summer look and feeling fabulous at 50
The biggest change I’ve noticed in my approach to fashion as I near my 50th birthday is that instead of following trends, I work with my style. Choosing clothes that flatter me, give me confidence and work hard for me. I used to feel like there was something wrong with me, or with my shape, when something didn’t suit me, but now, I blame the clothes rather than blaming myself. It’s one of the most empowering things I’ve learned and relates to being body positive. You do not have to change yourself. If an item of clothing isn’t working for you, consider changing it.
This may sound very middle-aged, but I also like my clothing to be comfortable and durable. I’ve worked with Cotton Traders for 3 years now, and the pieces from my first collection, which I’ve worn to death, still look like new! I think this is especially impressive with the knitwear, which comes out of the wash soft and fluffy every time. See, I told you this would sound middle-aged.
I love the idea that age and shape are no obstacles to being confident, stylish and beautifully put together. I want it all. Stylish, flattering, comfortable, quality clothing and at this point in my life, I’m not willing to settle for less.
Top tip: Please don’t get hung up on sizes. Wear the size that fits and flatters best, regardless of what it says on the label. Sometimes it can look better to go a size up, rather than squeezing into a too-small outfit, causing unflattering bulges! I’ve learned this one the hard way. Just because you can squeeze into something, it does not mean it fits you.
Dressing for every destination:
Living in Spain – the most popular holiday spot for Brits – you’d think life is just one long holiday… Now, don’t get me wrong, sometimes I have to pinch myself. Like when I’m watching the sunset whilst having a barbecue on the beach on a Friday night, glass of sangria in hand. But it’s not always like that. The same everyday issues, obligations and responsibilities come with you wherever you live, so for me, it’s still important to take time out and have a holiday. Here are some of my favourites.
City Break: Barcelona
The look you’re going for here is stylish but not trying too hard. A bit of attitude and an urban edge will make your outfits stand out.
Dressing for city life, you can get away with being a bit adventurous and avant-garde. Neutrals with bright pops of colour are fitting for this vibrant Spanish city. Comfortable shoes are a must if you are sightseeing, and don’t forget to pack your swimsuit for the beach. Some iconic places of interest, such as Gaudí’s Sagrada Familia, have a dress code, so you’ll need to be prepared to cover your shoulders.
I love versatile clothes that can go from day to night, so packing a flattering, floaty dress, light enough for the heat of the day, and pretty enough to wear in the evening, with practical pockets, would be a good move.
Active Holiday: Chamonix
Most well-known for winter sports – Chamonix is also a great destination in the summer for an active holiday. Here, the vibe will be Active-Alpine chic, where functional and comfortable clothing meets a touch of French “je ne sais quoi”.
For biking and hiking, you’ll need comfortable outdoor clothing or active wear. Appropriate shoes (what do you mean wedges aren’t appropriate for the mountainside!?) are a must.
Wear shorts, cargo pants or cropped trousers, and comfy layers as the temperatures can be changeable at altitude. Casual vests and T-shirts can be transformed with a little “French tuck” a simple trick where you tuck in just the front of the top, defining the waist and adding some shape to loose-fitting shirts, whilst feeling quite laid back yet elegant. It’s the clothing equivalent of a messy bun.
In the evenings, you can be a bit more smart-casual– but it can also be chilly, so jeans and a blouse would work; elevate the look with an extra layer such as a pretty cardigan draped across the shoulders to give the outfit a bit of French flair.
Exotic Holiday: Caribbean
When you are in a paradise location, you’ll want tropical glamour that looks effortless. Sounds tricky, but you can easily achieve this with flowy, breezy silhouettes, bright, clashing colours and statement jewellery.
Feeling comfortable and airy is the key to your confidence, and there is no reason why you can’t go from beach to bar in the same outfit, because on a Caribbean beach you won’t feel out of place in dressy sandals, big earrings and gold accents to pair with your swimsuit. A stylish kaftan, big hat, sunnies and a natural basket bag will finish the look.
Colourful, bold prints work well, and you can bring the look right up to date with a coordinating wide-leg trouser and shirt with a satin sheen for extra glam on a glitzy night out. This will have the bonus of sparing you from the mozzies!
UK Holiday: Isle of Wight
Many a childhood holiday was spent on the Isle of Wight and seaside-inspired outfits with island countryside charm is what we’re looking for here. We know we can’t rely on the weather when holidaying in the UK, so we plan for it, and pack for it, remembering to bring a cheery raincoat for the odd, inevitable shower. Stripy knits, reminiscent of a stick of rock, paired with jeans will give you a classic, layered, weather-ready outfit. Classic shapes will work better than high fashion in this context. Think wide leg jeans, “English-rose” inspired floral prints, muted and neutral colour palette with a splash of Isle of Wight lavender. A pretty tea dress and soft knitwear with be a must for a quaint afternoon tea.
Culture and Beach Break: Greece
Let’s talk about colours first. The classic Greek aesthetic of blue and white print is timeless and feminine and will never go out of style. You’ll see it reflected in the buildings and the sea, and the sky. Add to this the olive greens, earth tones and sun-bleached, bright white of the landscape, and you won’t go far wrong.
Whilst many of the Greek Islands have their distinct personality and flavour, I think Rustic and bohemian styles have a natural and understated elegance which works here. Include fresh linen, crochet accents and embroidery, which will suit the location down to the ground.
Simple gold jewellery or accessories will finish off this time-honoured look.
Packing wisdom
Think about it; how many times have you come back home from a holiday, with half of the contents of your suitcase unworn! Over the years, I’ve managed to streamline my packing to a minimum. I prefer to stick to hand luggage as not only is it so much cheaper, it’s also sooooo much quicker getting through the airport at both ends!
I like to have just the right amount of clothing so that everything gets an airing and also packing versatile pieces that can be used for different occasions and activities. Or paired with different items to create a whole new look.
Neutral shoes and accessories are a great idea for saving space, as they will go with everything. I usually go for a pair of plimsolls, a pair of flats and a wedge, plus gold or natural jewellery.
A packable hat, not only useful in the sun but also elevates any outfit.
Always pack a light scarf, wrap or cover-up to layer and use for when it’s too hot/cold or for visiting places of worship / formal destinations.
Top tip: Wear your chunkiest shoes and clothing when travelling, to save space in your bag. Decant your usual cosmetics into travel-sized bottles so they can go on board in your cabin luggage.